How to start with Montessori?

Watch this video: 6 tips to start Montessori at home:

Intro 0:14

Tip 1: Observe your child 0:54

Tip 2: Organise your house 1:54

Tip 3: Learn about the child's development stages 2:38

Tip 4: Use what you already have 3:18

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Tip 5: Invest in what you really need 3:55


If you’re reading this article, you’re probably interested in the Montessori education.

You have started doing some research about Montessori. You have found pictures of beautifully organized houses, toys on trays, specific counting or language activities, children focusing on day to day activities…

You probably feel a bit overwhelmed at this stage. Where do you start when you have just discovered the Montessori education?

Here are my 6 tips to start Montessori at home as a parent:

1) Read some basic books

I know, you can find everything on the Internet, but a book will give you the basics without overwhelming you. Here are my recommendations:
“How to raise an amazing child” by Tim Seldin.
If you are really passionate and want to go deeper, you can read Maria Montessori’s own books. “The Absorbent mind”, “The secret of childhood” and “what you should know about your child” are the best books to get started as a parent.

2) Observe your child

Before you make any change to your house, or start to de-clutter your children’s toys, observe your child.

The Montessori education is a pedagogy based on the observation of the child. Maria Montessori was a scientist. She designed her method and the material she is so well known for by observing children.

As your child’s first teacher, you must observe your child with scientific eyes.

Sit next to your child, but not too close, and observe. I encourage you to take notes. Pay attention to the following: what does he like to play with? What does he choose among his toys? What motor skills is he working on? What hand does he use? Is he comfortable in a group or in a new place? Does he like small objects? Does he like to categorise objects? How is his language? Does he try to participate in your daily life?

Also, observe how the environment – your house and your attitude – interfere with his independence. Does he have an easy access to what he needs so he can be as independent as possible? Obviously, a baby will not have the same needs and possibilities than a 4 years old.

3) Learn about the stages of child’s development

What to expect when is an amazing early year resource for parents to understand the different stages of development.

You can refer to what Maria Montessori called the Sensitive periods. Piaget refined those periods and named them “schemas”.

4) Set up your home to help your child become independent

Prepare a house that is safe and allows your child to explore his environment.

Buy him a stool that will help him reach the sink.

Make some drawers or cupboards accessible to your child, with his belongings in each room.

Make sure your child’s clothes enable freedom of movement. They should allow your child to dress up and undress by himself.

Encourage your child to feed himself with a snack table and low chair as soon as he can sit unaided. Babies, as young as 6 months old can drink from an open cup. Allow your child time to practise those important life skills. Trust your child: with the right tools, he will be able to do so much, such as cutting his fruit, pouring his own drink, setting up the table…

5) Use what you already have at first

When they discover Montessori, most parents are attracted by the beautiful material. However, this material was designed for the classroom and for the children aged 3 to 6 years old. If you are not planning to home-school (and even so, I don’t believe you need everything right now), you probably don’t need the whole set of Montessori material.

Most of the toys you have in your home can be presented in a way that is more attractive and purposeful for your child. Instead of having a box of puzzles with 5 different ones inside, give your child only one in a basket with the picture next to it.

Likewise, if you have some plastic sorting boxes, don’t run to the shop to have the same material made of wood for the sake of it.

Practical life activities can be done with what you have in your kitchen or bathroom. Treasure baskets can be filled with what you will find around the house. Art material can be presented in various recycled containers.

Some toys can be simplified so they don’t overwhelm your child. You can reduce the quantity of toys you currently have by storing away half of them. You can make some toys more attractive by disposing them on open shelves – or whatever furniture you have available.

Montessori tray activities

6) Invest in what you really need

What most families don’t have at first and what most families need will vary from one to another.

Here are my basic recommendations:

-A Child knife or crinkle cutter

– A small glass and pitcher
– A stool to go around the house
– a mirror at your child’s height, in the bathroom and his bedroom.
– a peg at his height in the cloakroom
– Real pictures of whatever your child has an interest in (animals, trains, dinosaurs) to match with objects or to talk about
– Toy animals. I like the plastic ones that are realistic, but many parents like the wooden options too. You will do so many language activities with them!
– Open ended toys such as blocks. Blocks can be used in many activities, such as sorting shapes, sorting by colours, counting, matching the blocks to forms on paper…
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This article is just an introduction to the Montessori basics for parents.

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About the Author Carine Robin

Carine Robin has a Master’s Degree in Psychology, specialising in child psychology. She worked for various social services in her home country of Belgium, before moving to Ireland in 2006. It was there that she started working in a nursery and discovered Montessori education. After having her first child, her passion for the philosophy grew and she qualified as a Montessori teacher and managed a preschool. Carine has been running a Montessori based parents and toddler group and coaching families for 9 years. She now also runs an online group for over 14000 parents, sharing her knowledge and passion with people from around the world. In 2018, Carine realised families needed more support and launched her popular online parenting courses and monthly subscription boxes, full of personally designed Montessori materials.

  • Jon says:

    wow! there are some really interesting ideas in this post. Going to show it to my Sister I think.

  • Tori says:

    I can see how less is more is beneficial for children to promote their imagination and attention skills. Montessori can teach us all some valuable skills.

  • laura dove says:

    Great tips for getting started! I heard a lot about Montessori when mine were small, this was really interesting!

  • I worked in a few Montessori nurseries for work experience and also studied it on my university course as well. I found her pedagogical approach to education to be fascinating!

  • Anosa says:

    Montessori is a new concept to me but I like that it is also based on spending time with your child and observing there learning.

  • Nadia says:

    What an interesting read. It has opened my eyes to som changes we will definitely make, like a mirror for my son. Thank you.

  • This was such an interesting read, thanks for all the information about Montessori! I am definitely keen to make my house more accessible for my little girl to be more dependant so this was good to read about!

  • Katy Stevens says:

    These are some fantastic tips. I’m going to look at a stool and a crinkle cutter now!

  • Louise says:

    I’ve always wondered what Montessori was, and I feel I have a better idea now as you’ve explained it really well. I’m going to pop to the library tomorrow to see if I can get a couple of books about it to learn more as I think it sounds fab!

    Louise x

  • Stephanie says:

    I think it’s a lovely way to get kids to learn, exploring and allowing them to learn

  • Laura says:

    These are some really fantastic tips, we incorporated some Montessori into our home when we did Homeschool until my eldest was 6. He then went to a Montessori school unfortunately not due to the ethos but the setting it didn’t work out but we learnt a lot

    Laura x

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